Dating Advice For Women

Sometimes, having the right advice can make all the difference.  This is definitely the case when it comes to dating advice for women.  In this article, I am going to go over 4 of the most common things that women don’t do when dating men.  Implementing the suggestions that I make here will give you a much higher chance of starting out your relationships with men on the right track.

Tip #1 – Define and Set Your Expectations

My first piece of dating advice for women would be to define and set clear expectations of what it is that you want out of the relationship.

a)  Know why she desires to be in a relationship  (Companionship, financial security, marriage, etc…) and what she expects to gain from being in one.

b)   Decide whether or not the man she is with wants the same things she wants (common interests, compatibility) providing she’s already in a relationship.

c)   Develop better listening and observation skills while being with your potential mate.

While doing the above, you will find that time is too valuable to waste and this will weed out the undesirables while saving yourself from much strife and heartache.

Tip #2 – Use Your Observation Skills

My second piece of dating advice for women would be to make greater use of your ability to observe and analyze a man’s behavior.  Proper observation and identification of behavior can and will make all the difference in a new relationship.

When a woman first meets the man she’s interested in, she should get to know him very well if she decides he may be someone she can see herself becoming serious with.  In the initial stages of dating, we (men) are going to want to impress you.  Let us talk and just sit back and listen.  Men reveal a lot about themselves initially when first meeting a woman.

Attend various functions with him when invited.  Observe how he interacts with his female colleagues, friends and family members alike.  Does he change in demeanor when he’s around others as opposed to when you are alone?  A woman should also know where her significant other works, know more about his family, perhaps even meeting them if possible.

Tip #3 – Know The Difference Between Honesty And Arrogance

My third piece of dating advice for women would be to understand that there is a difference between honesty and arrogance.  How fast you can make this distinction can have a huge impact on whether or not you take the next step with a man that you are interested in.

Men have to be confident in their initial approach.  Not arrogant.  There is a difference.  Also be honest from the on start of a relationship.  Research shows that women are turned on by confident and honest men.  They appreciate the honesty because a man is giving the woman the option as to whether or not she still wants to pursue the relationship after hearing what he has to say. Being honest shows confidence in a man.

I recall years ago inviting a young lady out for coffee after having a lengthy conversation.  She smiled and apologized to me indicating that she was already involved.  I simply returned the smile and informed her that I think she misunderstood my invitation.  I wasn’t asking her out on a date, I simply invited her out for coffee being that we had common interests.  Approximately two weeks after not seeing her, she invited me out to dinner asking where have I been these past couple of weeks.

Basically, we both had an interesting conversation, interesting enough to invite her out for coffee.  But I wasn’t going to mention it again.  The invite, as far as I was concerned, was me putting the ball in her court.  If she decided to pursue me she would let me know in due time.  Just like for the ladies, if a woman declines your advances after a few times of indicating your interest in her, move on.

Tip #4 – Have Your Personal Finances In Order

My last piece of dating advice for women is about money.  In past years, personal finances might not have been much of an issue for women.  This is simply no longer the case.  Women, just as much as men, should always make sure that their financial affairs are in order before pursuing a committed relationship.

Your career, financial security and having your own place are the first things that a woman generally should look at when evaluating a potential mate.  Dating is one thing but committing to someone is another.  Statistics show that over 50% of divorces occur over disputes involving money.  You can avoid being a victim of this by being financially secure before pursuing a serious relationship.

Ladies, if you take the time to address the key issues that I have outlined in this article, I am confident that you will be able to determine the pulse of your relationship.  I’d also love to hear your feedback. Whether your agree or disagree with my dating advice for women, I want to know about it – so please feel free to tell me what is on your mind.

-Adrian

32 Responses to “Dating Advice For Women”

  1. I truly enjoyed the heartfelt answers. They were informative, honest, and excellent. I cannot wait to read this book, as I did find the Book By Steve Harvey to be outdated and geared toward helping men rather than women. It’s going to be interesting to read the ideologies of a younger man, but old enough to hold wisdom.

  2. JAY MCFADDEN says:

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  4. Margarito Sawada says:

    Hey everyone, greetings from Paris. This is a cool blog. I’m wondering if you have any advice on staying out of the friend zone with girls? I’m really tired of women telling me they just want to be friends. Perhaps I’m being too much of a nice guy?

  5. admin says:

    Hi Margarito,
    I’m glad you enjoyed my site.
    As far as the ladies go, there is a fine line between being confident and over friendly. When a woman sees or experiences a man she’s not familiar with being too attentive, they may misinterpret your actions as aggressive or desperate. I find that attractive women are so used to having men approach them, that they eventually become numb to most of the compliments they receive. That is unless you have established a rapport with her or she is interested in you. Initially, when you find a woman that you may be interested in, observe her reaction towards other men and use a different approach. I don’t know the venue in which you meet these young ladies but for example; if you see someone of interest at the gym, don’t approach her right away. If she frequents this gym, make eye contact with her and perhaps a subtle smile would be appropriate. Observe her reaction. If she reciprocates with a smile, then you may have a likely candidate but do not approach her. Do this for the next several times you run into her and when appropriate, strike up a conversation and ask her if she would like to grab a cup of coffee some time.

    Adrian Weber
    Author/Writer
    Ladies, The Writing is on the Wall

  6. admin says:

    Glad you like it. I will personally respond to emails sent to adrianweberbooks@aol.com if you have any additional comments or questions.

    Adrian Weber
    Author/Writer
    Ladies, the Writing is on the Wall

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  8. I had fun reading this. But I am forced to really wonder if you meant you were leaning towards the masculine perspective here, though? :P

  9. I work all the time and have very little time to date. At the age of 40, I deceided it is time to concentrate more on my social life than my career. I don’t want to remain single forever! I am soaking up all the dating tips and advice I can get. Great information here. Keep up the good work! Online Dating Tips for the modern man

  10. Very good article.Really looking forward to read more. Great.

  11. Foster says:

    Really nice tips. Setting clear expectations out of the relationship is very important.

  12. Great article Adrian.

    I really like point 3; distinguishing between confidence and arrogance, as I think women can easily fall into the trap of making the false assumption that a guy is arrogant when they approach them.

    Matt
    Gettheguy.co.uk

  13. Awesome Information, thanks for this useful Post. I will come back soon . Also great information about flirting : Singles

  14. Lynn says:

    I am very impressed with the advice I have read so far on this very interesting site. I have a simple question with most likely not a simple answer but wanted to get opinions on this subject. I am wondering how much I should be expected to pay for when out on a date and how often (when with the same person)? I have been divorced for over 10 years and have been finally dating someone for more than a month. The problem is I am a little old school and the guy I am dating is a lot younger than I am. I don’t want to build resentment in regards to money, as that is what basically caused my divorce for the most part. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.
    Thanks,

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    Hi there Adrian
    I have read quite a few things of late as I find myself back in the dating bracket after some 15 odd years, I was shocked to find rhings seemed to have changed a bit since then. Men in general seem to be players just out for a good time and or a bit on the side. I was saddend by this finding and felt I was perhaps out of touch. However, I now feel that after reading these few pages of yours that perhaps I’m not out of touch at all but that the playing field rules have changed some what. I read something of a so called ‘relationship’ councillor who is a woman talking about being a Siren and that we (woman) hold the power tot he secrets of ‘making a man fall in love with us’ What utter TOSH!!! Your short but simple sound advice has thank god saved me from believing this utter rubbish!!!! So for that I thank you :) Regards Chantelle

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