The following is the first part of an e-mail interview that I recently had with Adrian Weber. In it, we discuss his book Ladies, the Writing is on the Wall and more. At the conclusion of the interview it was clear to me that Adrian Weber is clearly a rising star in the field of relationship advice for women. Women who are seeking a greater understanding of men would do well to listen to his advice. -Nicole S. Ross
1. What inspired you to become a writer?
It’s funny you should ask that. I really never considered myself to be a writer or possess the ability to effectively convey my thoughts and ideas on paper until an English professor thought otherwise. I wrote an essay on the subject of hunting and had to elaborate on why I either agreed or disagreed with this pastime. The professor reviewing my essay was impressed and considered me to have the skills necessary to become a writer. I was very pleased with his evaluation. Not only because I tested out and saved $1400.00 by not having to take an English course as a prerequisite that semester but felt that I had an invaluable skill that can be improved upon. With my most recent work, I felt the need to clarify and fill in the void of missing information that authors neglect to write about when it comes to the matters of relationships, intimacy and love.
2. How did you get started?
Ironically enough, it all started out as a joke while at work. I overheard some of my female colleagues complain about a recent book they’ve read. It was written by a comedian I believe. They said the information it contained was redundant and outdated. Being facetious, I told them I should write a response. I found out the title and picked up a copy to see what they were talking about. I agreed with their reviews and felt further clarification was needed on the subject being discussed. This is how I came to write my project entitled Ladies, the Writing is on the Wall.
3. Who do your books relate to more, men or women?
I would have to say women. Ladies, the Writing is on the Wall elaborates on what a woman needs to determine prior to entering a relationship. It also gives her insight as to why she needs to become a better listener and observer of her man’s behavior. More importantly, I explain the different forms of abuse and how to recognize these signs before it becomes too late.
4. Who do you feel should read Ladies, the Writing is on the Wall?
My book specifically targets the woman who feels like she doesn’t really understand her man, but yet, wants to. She has started noticing that men exhibit certain signs and that she has misinterpreted these signs in her past relationships. She wants to avoid those problems in this relationship because she wants this one to last. Furthermore, she wants to learn to properly recognize these signs and to also be able to understand what they really mean in a relationship with a man. She now knows that the key to having a successful and lasting relationship with any man is understanding how men communicate with women.
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Its refreshen to see someone finally giving clear cut answers on matters of relationships. Women need to hear these basic fundamentals and learn how to become better listeners. Thanks Adrian for your candidness.
Thought provoking and honest