I hope the holidays find you in good spirits!  I recently read
your comment on my website.  Honestly speaking, this sounds like a
“Friends with Benefits” arrangement.  First off, I would like to begin
by saying there is nothing wrong with this type of relationship if both
parties agree and are knowingly involved in this capacity.
     Problems arise when one party in the relationship knows and the
other is hopeful or left in the dark.  I noticed that you haven’t
verbally communicated this to him yet.  So as a result, he has grown
complacent.  You have to communicate how you feel about him and inquire
as to where it is he thinks your current relationship will end up.
More importantly, you have to reevaluate your current situation and
determine if you are willing to continue being in this relationship.
     You’ve mentioned that you are compatible in many ways but want
more.  He may or may not feel what your desired intentions are but
don’t assume he does.  Pick a pleasant venue and discuss these matters
of concern and observe his response/reaction.  In my opinion, any man
that takes a lady to see his parents seemingly has good intentions but
men sometimes can view a good woman in their lives as a good friend and
nothing more.  This is what you need to clarify so that valuable time
isn’t wasted and no one gets hurt in the process.  I explain in detail
this process of how to observe and interpret in my book, “Ladies, The
Writing is on the Wall.” I hope this helps…

Adrian Weber
Author:  Ladies, The Writing is on the Wall